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Alarming rate of divorce in Abuja, other states traced to use of Kayan Mata

In a quest to determine the causes of accelerating fee of divorce within the Federal Capital Territory Abuja, it was gathered that determined and power single girls have uncovered a ‘fetish’ technique of snatching husbands.

The determined spinsters have gone deep in the hunt for the answer to their single standing by utilizing an aphrodisiac popularly know as Kayan Mata to hypnotise and spellbind males to themselves.

Kayan Mata actually means ‘girls issues’ in Hausa, the key language spoken within the Northern a part of the nation.

The product is a intercourse and love enhancer initially meant to bond {couples} because it possesses the ability to enhance their affections.

Nonetheless, the product has been misconstrued and abused by girls who’re in determined want of man or money.

In accordance with a seller, Halima Faruk who posted a video on YouTube, the product is fabricated from herbs normally obtained from India and a few African nations.

“The product makes your intercourse organs extraordinarily very candy, so candy that when your man exams one other girl, the lady would style soar to your man.

“Whenever you use the product and sleep together with your man, he can by no means get good sensation from one other girl besides you, and that can make him hold coming for you.

“To know the effectiveness of the product, swallow some particles of it and take sugar, you’ll discover out that sugar is now not candy, the best way sugar tastes in your mouth, is how different girls can be to your man.”

In accordance with her, Kayan Mata is of various varieties. She recognized one as ATM which has the capability of compelling males to launch money and property they by no means wished to offer.

It may be recalled that an Abuja-based lawyer, Annnebrafa, Esq took to her Twitter deal with on February 2020 to say that over 4,000 {couples} utilized for divorce within the Federal Capital Territory in lower than two months.

“4,000 divorce functions in Abuja already and the yr simply began.

“A few of these marriages are lower than a yr previous. What is basically occurring,”? She tweeted.

Though the declare stimulated a number of reactions from many Nigerians as some ascribed the ugly pattern to lack of preparedness for marriage whereas others had been sceptical on the authenticity of the determine.

Nonetheless, statistically, the variety of divorce instances has reached an alarming fee within the FCT, with over 200 marriages reported to have been dissolved by the FCT Excessive Court docket alone within the final one yr.

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Findings revealed additionally that the determine is nearly ten occasions larger on the customary courts, the Alkali and the Sharia Customary Courts inside the Federal Capital Territory.

Some residents of FCT who spoke with DAILY POST, stated they had been blind to the trending product, stressing that their husband will need to have been spellbound.

A feminine resident of the Federal Housing, Lugbe Abuja who most popular anonymity for concern of victimisation stated, “I bought to learn about this demonic product not too long ago after it had ruined my marriage.

“My husband who used to like me greater than anybody all of the sudden misplaced his affections for me. He now not sees me as his spouse.

“His unusual attitudes in the direction of me and the youngsters is sort of worrisome. He’s all the time going out with out disclosing his vacation spot and that has continued for a really very long time now.”

Equally, Mrs Monica (surname withheld) of Gwagwalada, instructed DAILY POST correspondent that she is about to file for divorce owing to her husband’s unusual perspective.

“Will I proceed on this situation and die due to marriage? I don’t suppose it’s price it.

“I had observed {that a} unusual particular person penetrated into my marriage when he (husband) began hiding to choose calls and refused to reveal his cellphone safety pin to me, however after I confronted him, we virtually fought.

“He doesn’t even sleep at house any extra. Somebody will need to have pierced him down with Kayan mata. I’m certain it’s not unusual,” she lamented.

One of many Abuja huge ladies, Susanna of Gwarinpa, instructed DAILY POST that solely sensible ladies rule the town, stressing that she selected by no means to tread the a part of poverty.

In accordance with her, “There’s cash in Abuja, however when you no shine your eyes, poverty go simply kill you earlier than your time. We use what we now have to get what we would like.

“I don’t care how a person appears, what he does or whether or not married or single. My very own na to money out and transfer”.

When requested if she makes use of Kyan Mata, she responded, “The person is in love. That’s crucial factor. It doesn’t matter what I used on him.”

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Additionally, a feminine undergraduate who spoke to our correspondent, argued that love doesn’t exist. She stated she goes into males for mere pleasure.

“I’m not in search of any relationship that may result in any marriage. Lots of my pals who’re married are solely enduring the union, so why ought to I be a part of them?

“If the married males are having fun with their marriage, they wouldn’t come to us, so permit me to take pleasure in myself,” she stated.

The desperation by the one girls to get a husband which has resulted to enthralling males, will not be unconnected to the rising fee of single girls and shortage of suitors within the Territory.

One other Nameless supply instructed our correspondent in Abuja that that household and friends pressures on girls made them take pleasure in using Kayan Mata to grab husbands.

“On this a part of the world, if you find yourself closed to 30 years, folks will hold mounting pressures on you to get married even when there are not any suitors, as if it’s your fault.

”Somebody will simply name you with all types of seriousness solely to let you understand that you’re not getting any youthful, so you have to marry.

“So when a girl shouldn’t be capable of hold her husband, we’ll assist her to maintain the person. There’s shortage of husband. Everybody desires to get a person to herself. And in case your husband is wealthy, I’m sorry,” she added.

An evangelist within the Redeemed Christian Church of God, RCCG, Augustine Johnson, instructed DAILY POST in Abuja that the problem of Kayan Mata is an indication of ‘finish time’ as predicted by the Holy Bible.

“The desperation by younger girls that we see right now, has been recorded in Isaiah 4:1 which in accordance with the Good Information model, said that, “When that point comes, seven girls will seize maintain of 1 man and say, ‘We will feed and dress ourselves, however please allow us to say you might be our husband in order that we received’t should endure the disgrace of being single,” he stated.

DAILY POST’s investigation additional reveals that many Nigerian girls are into the enterprise of Kayan mata. It’s both they’re patronizing the product or they’re advertising it. A lot of the girls promoting the product use social media similar to Fb and Instagram to persuade potential purchasers.

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